Finding peace

              Every man and woman needs to understand what they want to do and what not. When you have enough faith in yourself there is no place for confusions in one's mind. We just have to decide what is right for us.              Confusions can be due to lack of hope, confidence, lack of trust and self belief. To avoid these you can consult or have a conversation with your loved one. It always helps. No matter how worst the situation is. The thing that matters is only the right path to be chosen, the right decision to be took. More the suggestions more is the confusion. But always choose the right person to guide, who is trustworthy. One of the best way is to give some time to yourself and analyse .                   Self analysing is important at times when you are confused about what to do next. Your mind can be the best advisor as the voice comes from deep withi...

           One of the biggest feeling in the world which can help you to grow is jealousy. Seeing someone doing better than us we feel jealous. We don't think that the person is just more good than us instead we stop talking to that person. We start avoiding him / her . Many people do this. They start feeling low, demotivated. They lose all hopes to achieve their goal. It adversely affects their lives. Whatever they do they are least interested in it.                   Instead we should always try to do better than that person. With this we try to improve. Slowly with time , we reach excellence. Wasting time on thinking that we cannot do anything is just useless and not beneficial. It won't help. Always try to update and change yourself to become better.                    We have successfully wasted our years in doing nothing and becoming jealous of someone good ...

                   There is no one best in the world. One cannot become the best until you try . There's a saying that , 'your best version is yet to come '. The harder we strive and pull ourselves we can be one step closer to growing better. When you limit yourself you are confined till the boundaries. You can't grow well , you are restricted.                  For becoming the best you need to keep on learning constantly and try to implement these things in your daily life. It should be more of output which is implementation than of input that is just adding stuff in mind. If intake is 20% then the implementation should be 80%. It not only improves you but also can lead you to your dream , the success which you are desired of . People usually fail to implement. With time they forget what they learnt. It's a major drawback. To avoid this we should always revise what we learn be it value a...

               As you all know that a circle is of 360 degrees . Similarly a person's mind can think in different ways. Whenever we feel something is right for us , the other person might think it it not right. It's on the individual's mindset and his way of thinking. We can't say that the person is wrong. Instead of understanding his / her point of view we start arguing with him/ her on how we are right. We start to condemn the person and start fighting with him/her. It's the human nature right?               But then what's the solution for this? Just we have to understand the other person's perspective of looking at things . His/ her opinion should be taken in consideration. And most importantly we should listen to him / her calmly. It helps a lot. Before all this you should know that you always can't be right.              ' When you change the way you look at things,th...

           All say there is no big school than life . We can learn things beyond the four walls. It teaches us different lessons which helps us how to face problems , how to survive , how to build our personality and lead a beautiful life.It adds moral values at every step.  It brings tough situations every day, just try to solve them and tackle them. Life itself teaches how to find solutions to all problems and gives answers to all questions. Just we have to try and keep on trying till we come out of it. As we come out we actually are ready to to hustle and handle the chaos.                  As great people say ' When there is will there is a way'. There is always a key for a lock , a solution to a problem, an answer to a question . When 100 doors are closed there is a window open , just you have to search for it .                 'You're either part of the solut...

                Things around us change, so does the human beings. Change is a part of our life. One who can't adapt according to the surrounding fails to survive in this cruel world. According to Darwin's theory 'Survival of the fittest ' which is a person who competes can survive. Others are left behind. Change is necessary. Every change brings growth of your personality. Some changes prove to be very helpful while some might lead to self destruction. With time we keep on changing, instead I will say growing. Change is the only constant in the life.                 I always feel small changes can make huge differences, and it's true. Slowly slowly when we start changing ourselves, we transform into a good human being. Same goes with the society. When people try to bring change they first try to convince their family and then others. They have to start from their home.   With time this change turn...

                     Life is very challenging. It tries to pull you back . It breaks you from within. It is actually very tough to stay strong during these times. You always need someone around you , who actually cares for you. Holds your hand tightly and always stays with you no matter what the situation is. You always need a person who always say 'I am always there for you be it good or bad times. I will be there right behind you, holding your back when you fall. Whenever you feel like sharing your pain, I am there to give you my shoulder to weep. I am there to wipe your tears. You can always be safe when I am around.'          It's not necessary to have many friends but the people who actually care for you. There's just a need of a 3 am friend that's it. Who will never make you feel lonely. Who will make you smile when you are sad. Who will laugh first when you fall down. Might be the last person to be in...