Finding peace

           Who doesn't like appreciation? 'You are beautiful', ' Good job ', ' keep up the good work ' , etc. If you say these words the person feels delighted. Whatever work that person is doing will be perfect. He / she will be happy doing that work. Whenever you appreciate someone you pass on positivity to that person.              His / her whole day will be good. Honest appreciation actually makes the day. People always criticize others. What they get in return is just hatred and nothing else. When you get up in the morning appreciate people around you. You will get instant results. They will smile back at you. Even if someone fails to fulfill your wishes appreciate him / her for atleast trying. Whenever your child gets good marks appreciate. If your wife cooks tasty food appreciate her. Do appreciate others for small small things because it motivates others to continue their work without delaying and give their best.Appreciation is an instant to do thi

          Whenever you start something the most important values required are hardwork, patience, passion and motivation. Without these you won't reach anywhere . Hustle till you succeed. Always stay motivated and motivate others who work with you that's what makes the team believe that they can make impossible work possible.                 Today's generation lacks motivation. They keep on searching for motivation around them. But the issue is when they feel motivated and inspired, it's just for that moment. Until you have the fire ,everything is achievable. Gradually with time you will reach heights of success. Even if you have no funds,  no connections with rich people you have so many other things which will make sure that you don't fail.            Wright brothers also started everything from zero . They just had a team whom they motivated and kept on trying . With their constant efforts they developed a technology that the whole world knows . They did what oth

           Parents want their children to excel in their lives. So they prepare themselves and their children for rat race. Parents see a dream and their children also work hard to complete their parents dream . During this time parents do the education part but what about adding values to their child's life. They themselves are busy with their work. They feel schools and tuitions are enough to make a child good ( according to me).              There was a family in Mumbai. Mother and father both were earning for livelihood. They didn't had time for their kid. While going at work there was always a fight between the couple. The child used to listen their parents fighting, using slangs and bad words. Words which he didn't knew meaning of. He started using them. With time he became mischievous. When the teacher was fed up of it she called his parents.               The next day, parents came. Teacher told about their son's complaints. Later she warned the parents about th

          It is always said that if a person educates then his/ her complete family starts changing. Their point of views about things change. In a way they also get educated. Yes I say educated because whatever we know something new it's sort of education. But while doing all this , the person needs courage and willingness to change his / her family's mindset. Without having feelings ignited for a better society, until you want to see a change in the society nothing can happen. Someone or the other has to take an initiative. If a single person starts to do good for the society, he/ she surely faces opposition from the people and they don't believe on your thoughts. If you are firm then no one can stop you. Be strong enough to fight till the end until success is achieved and atleast one person is changed. For me that one person matters a lot. There are many examples which inspire me.            One of the most common but not so common example is of Mahatma Jyotirao Phule. F

         ' The best way to make your dreams come true is to wake up' .Our daily routine starts with waking up. Some get up early in the morning while others are still deep in their sleep ,  dreaming about their bright future.  Some people try to get up early in the morning , but due to lack of determination they can't. While some succeed in getting up .             For waking early in the morning you need to sleep on time. For getting up early in the morning people set alarms. They are of two types : 1- external alarm : The alarm tone should be inspired by nature like call of birds, sound of the wind. Not too loud, which will disturb you and others too. Choose the right tone.  2 - Internal alarm - Some people train their minds and instruct them to wake up at certain time and they do wake up. It is possible when you practice it a lot of times.             When we wake up early in the morning we have an extra edge over the people who are still in their beds. It not only begin

    Whenever you criticize someone you would get satisfied for some time but that person might get affected for long time. He / she will start questioning himself/ herself. They try to figure out problems they have( which might not be).         Pointing something bad in others is not good especially when we are also doing the same. If you want to preserve your relations don't say ill about your closed ones. Criticising is bad . If it is in your nature people won't like talking to you. They start avoiding you. If you criticize people will remember it for years . If you do good number of times , people will never appreciate due to your deeds.              More you criticize more you fail to handle people. Instead compliment them, appreciate them for their good work. Even if they commit mistake don't use foul words, make them understand in gentle manner. 

             Our lives are complicated. The same goes with relations. Be it a mother-son relation or a husband-wife relation or any others relation.We usually lack to understand each other, instead we fail. It's important to know the person is right at his/ her position. But no, we are egoistic why we should step back when we are right? There are people who can't manage many relations at a time. Through out their lives they try to do so. If they try to become good for one they might fail to fulfill other's wish. We are struck between them. Very few people succeed in balancing the relations.                  But the reality is many fail. Life keeps on checking how stronger your bond is with your loved ones. With time everything becomes fine .                   It's very easy to break relations but it's very difficult to maintain them for long period. Once broken it takes years to mend . Communication is the key to preserve relation. 

              Every man and woman needs to understand what they want to do and what not. When you have enough faith in yourself there is no place for confusions in one's mind. We just have to decide what is right for us.              Confusions can be due to lack of hope, confidence, lack of trust and self belief. To avoid these you can consult or have a conversation with your loved one. It always helps. No matter how worst the situation is. The thing that matters is only the right path to be chosen, the right decision to be took. More the suggestions more is the confusion. But always choose the right person to guide, who is trustworthy. One of the best way is to give some time to yourself and analyse .                   Self analysing is important at times when you are confused about what to do next. Your mind can be the best advisor as the voice comes from deep within.

           One of the biggest feeling in the world which can help you to grow is jealousy. Seeing someone doing better than us we feel jealous. We don't think that the person is just more good than us instead we stop talking to that person. We start avoiding him / her . Many people do this. They start feeling low, demotivated. They lose all hopes to achieve their goal. It adversely affects their lives. Whatever they do they are least interested in it.                   Instead we should always try to do better than that person. With this we try to improve. Slowly with time , we reach excellence. Wasting time on thinking that we cannot do anything is just useless and not beneficial. It won't help. Always try to update and change yourself to become better.                    We have successfully wasted our years in doing nothing and becoming jealous of someone good than us. The things which we feel impossible others have done it in ease. Just try to push yourself. Be limitless. A